nothins changed on my end..aside from being slower, and more forgetfull since the head injury
been takin care of my dissabled mother ALONE since 88(age 13)..yup dad left that year not long after she got out of the hospital..his fault btw(construction, him driving the front loader)....odd jobbin for the longest time..these days its mostly engine swaps, general repairs and lots of rust repair,/custom/body/paint..bikes to tractors makes no differance to me...entirely word of mouth either from selling something off, buying parts, or the guys at parts houses recomending me..and i REFUSE to take something on if the owner is a dick..just wont do it....right now ive actualy got a waiting list..so im proud of that...keep in mind my mother gets ZERO state assistance just an anuity from the tractor company which "just" pays the monthly bills....and not thru bad winters...ive been supporting the "extra" costs of stuff for 10+ years sucsessfuly..on top of having money for my own projects, tools to make life easier, and the funds to pay off bills my girl had BEFORE we got married..and now..ive been officialy supporting her 100% since last year(in a few days) but i had been helping her with her bills the last 3 years while she was in canada.....she is happilly not working helping me with mom as well as getting me re-organized, the house pretified for a SOLID refi..and helping me sell off some stuff
yes i live at home with mom..but..its more of a i take care of mom she lives with me..the house loan is in her name yes..but my names on it...if it wasnt for me..shed have been stuffed in a nursing home and likely died from many things.....so..im a full time live in care giver first..a wrench second...but hey..with the shit hand i was delt..i still managed to find a perfect wife, have many toys, and as of right this second a house thats only got 80k overhead and still ZERO "help" but thanx to obama she finaly has medical coverage that isnt out of personal pocket....that man saved her life last year when things got real ugly thanx to a "new" loop hole in the system that looks at income from a tax perspective alloweed her full free medical(dr/rx NOT CARE)