Well, find out what's happening before you pull the control arms. Others may use the stock location points. Where the springs are concerned, that's why I mentioned having them locally made. I went to check on my SS springs, but I forgot I sold them. :doh: They were made about 8 years ago, though, so I'm not sure about country of manufacture.
I have no experience with nylon suspension bushings, but generally speaking when it's nylon wearing on steel, it's rock hard. You'll also likely need to grease it at every oil change. However, "firm riding" and "hey, family, put on your kidney belts, we're taking the Charger for a ride" are two very-different things. Using balls-to-the-wall everything is not going to make for an enjoyable car; it'll just knock your freakin' teeth out when you cross railroad tracks. Poly is plenty stiff (do not use it on the strut-rod bushings, use rubber there) without being annoying. Hemi torsion bars are more than enough, as are XHD springs (or lighter-weight SS springs, same on both sides). Beyond that, you're just entering the ludicrous zone. A lot of thought has to go into balancing front and rear suspension rates. You don't want gross understeer, but as much fun as it may sound, you don't want a tail-happy car either.