Sad news..

68R/T

I got drunk and swallowed my teeth, now
My brother just called at 1:15 am to tell me that our dad had just had a heart attack and had passed.

He would have been 91 this coming July 16th. Born and raised on a farm when everything was either done by hand or with horses. After my parents married they share-cropped until '54 when we moved into town. He then worked a miserable job at a furniture factory for the next 18 yrs. When he finally got fed up with that job, he worked at a place that made silos and silo unloaders. Much happier because he was familiar with what he was doing.

In the evenings and saturdays, he spent doing farm work for an uncle. Farming was his love and he "had it in his blood" His one day off, Sunday, was usually spent washing, cleaning & waxing his car.

Out of necessity and lack of money, he did most everything that needed to be done. Not always the best quality, but workable. This willingness to "take a stab at it" has influenced me with the same outlook of "I can do that."

After he retired at 65 he quit doing anything. By then all of us kids were on our own. Many times one of us would try to get him involved into doing something and he would say, "I don't have to, I'm retired"

He worked hard throughout his prime to raise 6 of us kids on a meager wage. My mother did what she could with little money to feed and clothe us.

After my mother passed 18 1/2 yrs ago he had a hard time coping for a couple years. Eventually he settled into a routine.

After I bought my house, I would many times get him to show me the "tricks" of a new project.

It was always interesting to listen to him tell of the "old times" and how things used to get done.

He was the middle child of 13 kids and the last to go.

So long dad. :(
 
I'm always at a loss for words in these situations, I'm deeply sorry for your loss. It sounds like he lived a full, and fulfilling life. Be strong, we are here if ya need us.:helpme:
 
I hope it wasn't to painful for him when he went and that he was able to pass on peacefully. :helpme:

My condolences to you and your family 68. :(
 
Sounds like a good rich life there big guy!!!

My condolences to you and your family there 68rt.
 
Your old man sounds alot like my grandfather. Sorry to hear of it but hey, just imagine what he's up there doing with your mom right now[smilie=2: :bwuhaha:








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:wtf: Sorry just trying to make ya laugh and help you see [B]a[/B] bright side to this.:)
 
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Our condolences, Jim.

You describe your Dad as a great man. I'm sure there was even more greatness than you know. People like him (and you) are few and far between these days. Cherish his memory and all that he taught you by passing the knowledge and ethics along. It's time to celebrate his life, not mourn his passing.
 
So sorry to hear Jim I know one of theses years We'll be making a posts like these also when we lose our dads. Take care Jim you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.:(
 
i come from a HEAVY farming back ground and have a good understanding of the life...i feal for ya..ive got alot of farming family that i expect to pass in the next few years...its MUCH easyer being prepared in advance than it is to get a phone call in the midle of the night
 
Sorry for your loss Jim. thoughts and prayers for you and your family. i'll light a candle for your Dad.
 
Sounds like your dad was a great man :( Sorry for your loss Jim. I can't imagine losing a parent. I know the day will come eventually but I don't look forward to it at all. Visit here often. We'll try and cheer you up.
 
Like well stated, i am indeed sorry for your loss, though cold text cannot capture the pain your are feeling. When we are close to our family, it is always hard to let them go, may he be rememberd for the rest of your days as the man you loved and admired, for he truley was your father. Celebrate the adventure that was his life, not the sadness of his death. Your father sounds like he was a great man, and indeed he should be remembered as so.

And always remember you have friends here, if you need to, gives a contact, we all will be glad to help.
 
Sounds like he lived a full life- thats for sure. I was lucky to be able to talk to my dad the day before he died. It might be hard to realize right now but there are worse ways to go. I have an older friend thats on kemo and at 1400 buks a day he gets to watch his life savings dissapear with a tube down his throat and his arms tied down. I dont know about you, but I couldnt do that. Hopefully your dad wasnt in too much pain and it was over quick. So chin up and best wishes for the rest of your family from whats left of mine.:helpme:
 

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