Really sad news!

[OrphanedV8s]

Just found out afrom a classmate that a guy we went to school with he was a year younger than us, hung himself. Last time I saw him he was with his first wife when I lived in Rochester, Mn. They divorced, he moved back here and got engaged to a girl we went to school with. He leaves behind his 2 kids, and a fiance with a child of her own. She found him. Worst part is she was engaged to a classmate years ago that killed himself

 

[oldkimmer]

Sorry to hear that, my thoughts and prayers are with u and her and the familys...........kim.........

 

[68isgr8]

man that's too bad, I'm sorry to hear that Davy.

 

[Robertson_Tech]

Wow sorry to here that, that is so bad for so many but I sure hope that young lady gets help.

 

[BootHead]

geez.

 

[Diplomat_Wagon]

Damn.

 

[Pedals]

That's plain sad! What awful news!

 

[giowest]

Sorry to hear about this but suicide to me is a horribly selfish act, I have first hand lived thru a brother commiting suicide and I just dont get who you think your hurting more, yourself or those you leave behind.

I have a niece who is graduating next week in anthripology from Loyola university who decided at a young age she wasn't going to be detracted by her fathers BS selfish act and make a name for herself.

Sorry, sore subject with me.

 

[ORVIL]

really sorry to hear this happened.. and Gio i undersand the last sentence... to them it,s not a cowards way out. they think it the only solution to a big problem.. the problem is they usually don,t show any signs and when they do we miss them... we say it is not the right way and we are hurt by it . they think theyare right and can,t see anything or anyway around it. it,s sad and you can,t feel that your the victim, when in reality they are. it is tough to be a prisoner of your own mind and the mind can can do terrible things if your body is not functioning rite...... sometimes all it is , is a chemical imbalance. thats the simplest to fix if it because of trauma in your life that is somtimes harder to pick up and then sometimes we lose a loved one.hard to understand but we don,t know what goes on in a persons mind...... i feel very sorry for anyone and the family and also the collateral damage this sickness can cause..i hope you can forgive the person who did this that was not their intent to do this kind of damage whether the damage was big or small... it,s all so very real to them... you wouldn,t fault someone who is retarded, thats the way you have to look at this - you can,t hold the person responsible they thought they were doing ajustifiable act.. it,s to bad..... the reason i know something about it is that i also have been there... that is my take on it. i am very sorry for your loss - both of you... it does get better and you do heal ------With a heavy heart for both of you -ORVIL

 

[giowest]

Thanks Orvil, I meant my nieces who have both been stellar thru school and have grand plans for themselves dispite haveing witnessed a horrible act at a young age and dont look back at it as a disraction in theyre lives.

 

[OrphanedV8s]

Sorry to hear about this but suicide to me is a horribly selfish act, I have first hand lived thru a brother commiting suicide and I just dont get who you think your hurting more, yourself or those you leave behind.

I have a niece who is graduating next week in anthripology from Loyola university who decided at a young age she wasn't going to be detracted by her fathers BS selfish act and make a name for herself.

Sorry, sore subject with me.

Sorry fror what? I totally agree with you Gio and I admire your neice for being able to rise above it!

 

[71ChargerRT]

Damn :huh:

 

[Fishy]

Wow. I'll save my stories but I too have had brushes with the subject. I learned that it is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. It can be a very difficult thing to deal with. I am sorry for your loss Davy.