Thank you guys, we head back out for the wake tomorrow,will come home the first nite & stay out there(LI) at a marriot wed nite for the funeral thursday.
We're coping as best we can, He was my friend before he married my wifes sister, we actually introduced them to each other, she's tough & was a superwoman the last year or so, even the nurses were amazed at how well she tended him through this, but to have to whitness her grief coupled with 3 high school age kids is probably as hard as loosing a friend so young, again thank you all for the well wishes, Rich.